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Knowledge and treatment saves lives
By Nancy L. Torner
Center Rural and Regional Studies

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Not all people with depression are suicidal, but the number one cause of suicide is depression, an illness often left untreated because of stigma and misunderstanding.

Nearly 500 Minnesotans die by suicide annually, according to state human services data. Southwest Minnesota counties reported 27 adult and seven juvenile suicides in 2001.

A state study from 1993 to 1997 found that three times as many Minnesotans died from suicide than from homicide. It is the second leading cause of death among the state's 10 to 34-year-olds and the eighth leading cause overall. Males comprise about 80 percent of all state suicide deaths; American Indians suffer the highest rate of any group.

The Journal of the American Medical Association reports that 95 percent of all suicides occur at the peak of a depressive episode.

"When a person becomes absolutely hopeless, that's when they'll think of suicide," Jari Johnson, a licensed marriage and family therapist at the Southwest Mental Health Center in Pipestone said. "If you keep a spark of hope, then usually people will hang in there."

To save lives, it is critical that society recognize the warning signs of biological diseases that cause suicide and act on verbal and physical clues, according to those who deal with suicide in the region.

"A person who is suicidal will generally tell one person," Johnson said. "It's very important to not dismiss that, or to tell somebody that can get some help. If you were the only one they told, you wouldn't want to do nothing."

Intervention and prevention vital

In keeping with a 1999 Surgeon General's report that called suicide a serious public health concern, Minnesota drafted an action plan to better prevent and respond to suicide by raising awareness, reducing stigma, providing better intervention and creating better access to mental health care.



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Warning signs
• Talking or joking about committing suicide
• Trouble eating or sleeping
• Making statements about hopelessness, helplessness, or worthlessness
• Drastic changes in behavior
• Withdrawing from friends and/or social activities
• Losing interest in hobbies, work, school and personal appearance
• Preparing for death by making out a will and final arrangements
• Giving away prized possessions
• Appearing suddenly happier, calmer
• Previous suicide attempts
• Making unusual visits or calls to people
• Taking unnecessary risks
• Preoccupation with death and dying
• Increasing alcohol or drug use

Sources: Minnesota Department of Human Services

How to help
• Be direct. Talk openly and matter-of-factly about suicide.
• Be willing to listen. Allow expressions of feelings. Accept the feelings.
• Be non-judgmental. Don't debate whether suicide is right or wrong, or feelings are good or bad. Don't lecture on the value of life.
• Get involved. Become available. Show interest and support.
• Don't dare someone to do it.
• Don't act shocked. This will put distance between you.
• Don't be sworn to secrecy. Seek support.
• Offer hope that alternatives are available but do not offer glib reassurance.
• Take action. Remove means, such as guns or stockpiled pills.
• Get help from persons or agencies specializing in crisis intervention and suicide prevention.

Source: American Association for Suicidology

Feelings
People in crisis sometimes perceive their dilemma is inescapable and they feel an utter loss of control. Some of their feelings include the inability to:
• Stop the pain
• Think clearly
• Make decisions
• See any way out
• Sleep, eat or work
• Get out of depression
• Make the sadness go away
• See a future without pain
• See themselves as worthwhile
• Get someone's attention
• Get control

Source: American Association for Suicidology

Tips for survivors
• Struggle with why it happened until you no longer need to know why or until you are satisfied with partial answers
• Remember that anger and guilt are normal
• Take one day at a time
• Talk to friends and family
• Know that it's OK to cry
• Give yourself time
• Remember that no one is the sole influence in another's life
• Expect setbacks
• Be patient with yourself and others who may not understand
• Set your own limits and learn to say no
• Steer clear of people who want to tell you what or how to feel
• Let yourself laugh

Source: American Association for Suicidology


Chippewa is one of 13 counties to receive a suicide prevention grant from the state, Jennifer Husby, positive mental health coordinator for the Chippewa Family Services said. The grant covers a broad range of services, including helping schools pay for mental health curriculum and working with the community at large.

One juvenile and six adults died by suicide in the county in the last two years, Stacy Tufto, chief deputy with the Chippewa County Sheriff's Office said. The family services director was one of the adults.

The tragedy highlighted several issues for the community, among them stigmas attached to getting help and the need to reach out to people in trouble. One program includes the distribution of cards that a person in crisis can hand to someone if unable to verbalize his or her distress. The so-called yellow ribbon card advises the receiver to seek help for the giver.

"I would hope that people aren't scared anymore to ask the question, do you have a plan to kill yourself, are you suicidal? Usually, people don't want to ask that," Husby said. "But I think we've learned that you do ask.

"Prevention is very important. I think we all have good days and bad days. A healthy person would be able to deal with a bad day, but if a person has depression, sometimes you just can't deal with it. We need to get rid of the stigma that's been out there for years so these people will go and get help."

When someone has an operation, people visit and bring you flowers, Husby said. This also should be, but isn't the case when someone gets treatment for mental health issues. The lack of anonymity in small towns further deters people from seeking help, particularly those with a certain standing in the community.

"The stigma is still out there so we need to try and break that down with suicide prevention so that people feel that it's accepted," Husby said.

Asking someone if they think about suicide might feel awkward, but it isn't much of an intrusion to people considering it, Eugene Bonynge, CEO of Woodland Centers in Willmar said.

"They don't consider it that clumsy," Bonynge said. "It's not a taboo topic."

Broaching the subject won't put ideas in their head either, nor does data support some theories that peers of adolescents who die by suicide are more likely to consider suicide, he said. However, the likelihood is substantial that someone who survives one attempt will try again and possibly will at some time complete it. And medication for depression is no guarantee against suicide.

People need to be aware that someone who has been down for a long time who suddenly feels better possibly believes he or she has found a solution in suicide. The best prevention is listening to someone's issues and trying to get them to seek help, Boyngne said. If they refuse, bring in outside intervention either by calling a help line or police.

"One of the trademarks of depression is that even though things are going well, there is no pleasure," he said. "There are just so many variables. Basically it's a combination of some past history variables, circumstances and perturbation (an agitated depressive state)."

Survivors also are a concern, Bonynge said.

"It's devastating," he said. "In a way, they are somewhat ostracized. They are left in very difficult circumstances. It has huge affects on the family system."

Figures incomplete

Nationwide, some 30,000 people kill themselves each year, making it the 11th leading cause of death overall and the third among youngsters ages 15 to 24, according to U.S. vital statistics. The actual figure is possibly three times greater because many deaths classified as accidents lack enough evidence to prove otherwise. Each suicide affects an estimated six people, touching the lives of at least one in every 62 people nationwide.

National statistics show that four males die by suicide for every female, but females are three times more likely to attempt suicide. White males are the most likely to die; black females are the least likely.

The World Health Organization reports that socioeconomic changes for the better or worse can contribute to suicide rates, as can easy access to firearms. Of all the persons who died from firearm injuries in the U.S. in 1997, 54 percent died by suicide. Substance abuse, by either the individual or someone within the family, is another leading factor.


2001 Suicide statistics

County Adults   Juveniles
Big Stone 0 0
Brown 1 0
Chippewa 6 1
Cottonwood 0 0
Jackson 4 0
Kandiyohi 1 3
Lac qui Parle 1 0
Lincoln 0 0
Lyon 4 0
Martin 0 0
McLeod 0 0
Meeker 5 0
Murray 0 1
Nobles 1 0
Pipestone 0 0
Redwood 1 1
Renville 1 1
Rock 1 0
Swift 0 0
Yellow Medicine 1 0

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Statistics fall short of reporting all suicides, Terry Pankow, a licensed independent clinical social worker in Montevideo said.

"It is so easily hidden when you're old," Pankow said. "If you're 12 years old and you drop dead, they do an autopsy. If you're 85, you've had heart trouble for 10 years and they find you in your house one morning dead, what do they write on the death certificate -- congestive heart failure. I think there's a lot of elderly folks that decide, I'm not going to take my heart pill this week and see what happens. I think there are a lot of elderly who kind of decide to quit eating.

"I also think that there are a lot more deaths by suicide that get listed as accidents ñ- the one-car rollover at two o'clock in the morning, the midnight car head-on into the bridge abutment," Pankow said.

People should be aware that different sexes use different methods, Pankow said. Women and children are far more likely to use methods that don't disfigure the body and which allow a longer window of opportunity when they might be saved. Men tend to use instantaneous methods.

"Some people leave a note. However, we have this old fallacy that everyone who commits suicide leaves a note. It's not true," Pankow said. "Only about 30 percent do leave a note behind. It makes it so much harder for survivors if there's no note.

"The other thing we are discovering more and more in our technological age is if a note is left, it's becoming more an more common for it not to become a paper and pencil note, it's a computer note. If they think it's suicide, the police are now trained to go into the computer in the home, or if it's a teenager, did they have access to a computer in school or at the library?"

Attempts and threats rising

"We're getting more threats of it all the time," Donna Mollema, a jail administrator in Murray County said. "Times are getting tougher. A lot are put on 24-hour hold."

When sheriff's deputies respond, they often take individuals to the state hospitals in Worthington and Willmar for observation. They say the numbers who attempt or threaten suicide far exceed the numbers who die.

Yellow Medicine Sheriff's deputies handled three attempts three days in a row in July, Chief Deputy Richard Blackwelder said.

"People who commit suicide, they never know how it affects everybody," he said.

One worrying trend seen on rare occasions in the region are people committing crimes hoping police will kill them, Blackwelder said. He also wonders how many car accidents are actually suicides.

"Most officers last a year after a shooting," Renville County Sheriff Jerry Agre said. "It has an impact on everyone."

Agre also wonders about car crashes.

"Over the years I've seen somebody pull their car in front of a semi and hit it," Agre said. "In your own mind you think it's a suicide, but prove it."

Mental Health Resources

Big Stone Life Center, Stevens Community Hospital 800-568-5955 800-568-5955
Brown Sioux Trails Mental Health Center 800-247-2809
Chippewa Woodland Center 800-992-1716 800-992-1716
Cottonwood Southwestern Mental Health Center 800-642-1525 507-372-7671
Jackson Southwestern Mental Health Center 800-642-1525
Kandiyohi Woodland Center 800-992-1716 612-235-4613
Lac Qui Parle Praire Community Waivered Services 612-392-5911
Lincoln Western Human Development Center 800-658-2429 800-658-2429
Lyon Western Human Development Center 800-658-2429 800-658-2429
Martin Sheriff's Department 507-238-4481 507-238-4481
McLeod Hutchinson Community Hospital 320-587-5502 320-587-5502
Meeker Woodland Center 800-992-1716 800-992-1716
Murray Western Human Development Center 800-658-2429 800-658-2429
Nobles Southwestern Mental Health Center 800-642-1525 800-642-1525
Pipestone Southwestern Mental Health Center 800-642-1525 800-642-1525
Redwood Western Human Development Center 800-658-2429 800-658-2429
Renville Woodland Center 800-992-1716
Rock Southwestern Mental Health Center 800-642-1525 800-642-1525
Swift Counseling Association of West Central Minnesota 800-833-3096

Woodland Center 800-992-1716 800-992-1716
Yellow Medicine Western Human Development Center 800-658-2429 800-658-2429
Nationwide National Hope Line Network 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)

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